I am Shilo, and though I have no real memories of my past lives, all that I have read from the Elenari and Aldari has felt very familiar. I'm female, though I have had many people confused online over the years if I don't announce this. I assume it's because I don't conform to gender stereotypes very well.
I am still working on re-discovering who I was and where I want to go from here but it's going to be a long road. I am also working on getting out of a horrible relationship and starting over with my son. I am on my way to a new place in all senses and am hoping it gets better from here.