Sean
If you don't want to take apart a bunch of stuff going through the underside of the crown, then you should fashion your own wedge puller.
1. Thread your stem bolt two or three rotations into your stuck wedge.
2. Measure the distance from the top of the headset lock nut to the bottom edge of the head of your stem bolt. Call that distance X
3. Find a block of wood that is X thick. Stack up a couple pieces of wood if necessary.
4. Drill a hole through your block of wood just big enough that the stem bolt can pass through
5. Put the block on top of your headset lock nut.
6. Slide the stem bolt through the hole with a big flat washer to act as a bearing surface
7. Thread the stem bolt into your stuck wedge. As you tighten the bolt, you'll extract your wedge.
8. If it is stuck all the way up, and you run out of threads on your bolt, you might need to stack up more flat washers
Take advantage of the fact that your wedge is already threaded. That's what threads are good for.