So several things:
1) Each aircraft physical FLARM device should have their FLARM ID set to be the same as their ICAO transponder code. This will ensure it doesn't alarm with itself if running ADSB and FLARM, and also merges the two items into one on other devices.
2) If it's configured correctly in the OGN database, but is not under your asccount, then it doesn't really matter unless you want to change the privacy settings. You can just leave it as is.
3) If you want to change the configuration, but it's locked in someone else's account then you have two options:
a) Wait a year for the configuration to expire and you can claim it from the OGN database. (This was added recently).
b) Change the FLARM ID in your device to a random ID, and configure the new flarm ID in OGN and FlarmNet.
I do mention that here:
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