First of all make sure that the Oudie is not showing you traffic data from the internet (OGN, etc). That can duplicate even the same FLARM targets (with a delay for the internet route). If your Oudie does not have a SIM card, or is in "airplane mode", or you have set it to not show internet-sourced traffic, then that's not the issue.
If it is your PowerFLARM that is receiving both ADS-B and FLARM signals from the same aircraft, then it is the FLARM's responsibility to deduplicate those, which it will - as long as both signals are using the same ID. If the FLARM (in the other glider) is not configured to send the same ICAO ID as the ADS-B, e.g., if the FLARM is sending the device ID instead, or the wrong ICAO ID, then there is no way to deduplicate them, as there is nothing linking the two.