Hi Charlotte,
Then again, I realise that for me this was not the first programming experience, so I may not have encountered the same issues as you.
These days, there are so many more resources that can be useful.
A couple that I have encountered and would recommend are
1.
http://rubykoans.com/ don't be disappointed if you can't finish this on the first go, it helps you dig deep into ruby and learn the fundamentals of the language
3.
https://github.com/ - search github, find gems that you have used, open up the code*, go through it. You may not always be able to understand it, but these are the best examples you will find.
*every gem you use is also on your machine. In any project with a Gemfile eg. the project we build this weekend, you can use `bundle open <gem>` from the command line to open it in your editor
Pairing is also a nice way to learn. If you have something you want to work on, try and find someone to work on it with you, even if it's just for a couple of hours (me and the other coaches are keen in helping, I think a lot of the Rails Girls would be up for it as well). Two pairs of eyes are always better than one!
Also, no question is a stupid question. Don't be afraid to ask.
My two cents.
Thanks,
Despo
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