When
you jump someone’s car after their battery
dies or help an elderly person with their
groceries, generally, you are doing so to be
selfless. Your intention is to help somebody
else. But science shows those acts of kindness
are beneficial to you, too.
”Helper’s
high” is a concept consisting of
positive emotions that follow a selfless
service to others. It demonstrates the
positive impact kindness has on our physical
and mental states. Kindness can boost our
self-esteem, increase our confidence, and
strengthen our sense of self, and even our
sense of community.
We
know that healthy eating, consistent exercise,
and good sleep are pillars to excellent
health, but don’t underestimate the
physiological benefits linked to being kind
and generous.
How
kindness helps you
It’s
good for the brain
Kindness
generates a chemical response in our brains by
boosting neurotransmitters in our brains like
dopamine and serotonin. Being kind and
selfless to others registers with our brain’s
reward system, giving us feelings of
satisfaction and well-being.
It’s
good for the mind
Kindness
promotes connectivity to others. Doing
something as generous as paying for a food
order for the person in line behind you can
create a bond that may even extend past that
day. Not that that’s the intention, but that’s
the kind of social connection that can come
from random acts of kindness. New studies show
that the social connection promoted by
engaging in acts of kindness is a key
predictor of both well-being and recovery from
anxiety and
depressive disorders. Kindness helps
people feel less lonely and isolated. When you
donate time, money, and resources to your
community, it creates a sense of belonging
within your community, as well.
It’s
good for the body
Another
lesser-known neurotransmitter activated by
acts of kindness is oxytocin, which is
sometimes known as the “love hormone.”
Oxytocin has been studied extensively for its
role in promoting a sense of bonding and
connectivity, but it’s also considered “cardioprotective.”
As oxytocin levels in our bodies increase,
blood vessels dilate, inflammation is reduced,
and our blood pressure is lowered. Alas, our longevity improves the
kinder we are.
Be
kind to yourself
It
is easier and more natural for some people to
be kinder to others than they are to
themselves. In the spirit of being kind to
improve your overall health, be kind to
yourself when you misstep or make a mistake.
For a lot of us, being kind to ourselves is
rooted in self-care.
Prioritize your self-care by putting some of
these ideas into motion:
- Document
your gratitude by journaling.
- Engage
in mindfulness/meditation
- Give
your brain and body a break at work by going
for a walk.
- Practice
positive affirmations, like reminding yourself
of recent successes at work or compliments
you’ve received from family and friends.
Be
kind today…and tomorrow
One
way to take action immediately is to wake up
and ask yourself “how can I practice kindness
today?” Set out to be kind to others and to
yourself daily. Even acts of kindness as
seemingly small as complimenting a colleague’s
work or holding the door open for a stranger
can help set off those aforementioned chemical
responses. Make a habit of repeating these
acts of kindness, not only in the name of
helping others but in helping yourself.
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