Anas (May Allah be pleased with him) reported: One of the sons of Abu
Talhah (May Allah be pleased with him) was ailing. Abu Talhah went out
and the boy died in his absence. When he came back, he inquired, "How is
the boy?". Umm Sulaim, the mother of the boy, replied, "Better than
before". Then she placed his evening meal before him and he ate it; and
thereafter slept with her.
At last, she said to him: "Arrange for the
burial of the boy". In the morning, Abu Talhah went to Messenger of
Allah (PBUH) and informed him of the event. He enquired, "Did you sleep
together last night?" Abu Talhah replied in the affirmative, on which
the Prophet (PBUH) supplicated, "O Allah bless them."
Thereafter, she
gave birth to a boy. Abu Talhah said to me: "Take up the boy and carry
him to the Prophet (PBUH)"; and he sent some dates with him. The Prophet
(PBUH) enquired, "Is there anything with him?" He said; "Yes, some
dates". The Prophet (PBUH) took a date, chewed it and put it in the
mouth of the baby and rubbed the chewed date around the baby's gum and
named him 'Abdullah.
[Al-Bukhari and Muslim].
The
narration in Bukhari adds: Ibn 'Uyainah relates that a man from the
Ansar told him that he had seen nine sons of this 'Abdullah, every one
of whom had committed the Noble Qur'an to memory.
Commentary:
This Hadith has many lessons for our social life. For instance:
1.
The character of a woman of great patience and gratitude is mentioned
here. In spite of the death of her child she neither wept and cried nor
did she moan and mourn. She was patient to the extent that when her
husband came home she looked after all his needs like a loving and
obedient wife does and then broke the sad news of the death of their
child in a noble manner. Thus, this Hadith holds the lesson that it is
the foremost duty of a wife that she should serve her husband well and
provide comfort and peace of mind to him.
2. It is meritorious for a wife to beautify herself at home for her husband.
3. One who in his trouble is contented with the Will of Allah, certainly gets a reward for it from Him.
Friday Reminder: Recitation of Surah Kahf
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