In general, you can change the names of the brightfield channels by editing the Stain1 and Stain2 entries in the Image tab.
Openslide uses RGB in place of channels, I think, so you cannot rename or recolor Openslide channels.
You can't exactly set the server type after the image is open, but you can set the type of images that QuPath will use BioFormats for by default. You do this in the Preferences dialog.
I am not sure about the naming of channels in 1.3, hopefully someone else with a current install can check that :)