Explanations: The Companions of the Prophet asked him about what they wondered. Once, they asked him:
- What states and deeds of ours, what words of us will cause us to enter Paradise at the most? The Prophet (peace be upon him) said:
- “Respect for God and high ethics”. The highest respect, which shown by the slave to God Almighty and which we refer to as taqwa, and high ethics, which arranges the mutual relations of people, are the two states and deeds that cause people to enter Paradise the most.
Taqwa was explained through various verses included in the chapter “Taqwa” between the hadiths 70 and 74.
As for high ethics, Hasan al-Basri described it as doing a lot of favors, avoiding evil and having a smiling face.
One of our great scholars, Qadi Iyad, the author of Shifa ash-Sharif, states that high ethics means to get along well with people, to be loved by them, to show mercy, to endure the troubles people cause, to be patient in the face of their bad deeds, not to be arrogant, not to be violent, not to be furious, and not to scold them.
As it can be seen, the scope of high ethics is very wide.
The second question the Companions asked the Messenger of Allah was as follows:
- What causes us to go to Hell the most? He answered as follows:
- “The tongue and the genitals”
The tongue can send man to Paradise thanks to good words and dhikr; it can also send man to Hell due to ugly words, curses, backbiting, gossiping, slanders and other bad deeds against people and the Creator.
Muadh Ibn Jabal said to the Messenger of Allah,
- Say a deed that will take me to Paradise and drive me away from Hell.
The Prophet gave a long answer by stating that he asked him “something very difficult” and finished his words as follows:
- “Do you think that the sin that makes people fall into Hell face downwards is something other than what their tongues say?”
The Prophet states us that the other thing that send people to Hell most is the sexual organ. They do not cause any harm to man if they are used in the way created by God Almighty unless and they are used to commit sins. As a matter of fact, “men and women who protect their chastity and honor” are praised in the Quran for protecting themselves from sins; they attain the forgiveness of Allah and deserve the great rewards prepared for them.
It is meaningful that taqwa and high ethics are mentioned together with the tongue and sexual organ in the hadith. For, taqwa arranges the relationship between the slave and Allah; as for high ethics, it arranges the relationships among the slaves in the best way. On the other hand, the tongue can lead to the manifestation of bad deeds like denial of Allah, backbiting, gossiping, slander; the sexual organ may lead to adultery and similar bad deeds.