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Just go into the Xfce settings menu in dom0 and systematically look at
every option. (Pretty sure they're all in "Window Manager" and "Window
Manager Tweaks.") If it sounds like it would affect focus stealing, try
setting it to whichever value sounds like the value you'd want, then
test the result. I don't remember all the values I changed, since it was
a long time ago, but there aren't that many. Should take less than 10
minutes.
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