DO NOT CONNECT a 1000W lamp to a 3A dimmer!You could over load the circuit and cause a fire. You risk putting the safety of yourself, others and the insurance and license of the venue at risk.
The correct way to do this would be to either re-lamp the fixtures, so say a 500W lamp (assuming a nominal supply voltage of 230V) or to use dimmers correctly rated for the load. If the venue doesn't want to buy them, then you could hire them for this specific show if the electricity supply in the venue was adequate.
To answer your original question AFAIK there is no way to scale a lamp output in the patch or elsewhere in QLab. And as others have pointed out the load is unlikely to be linear with an incandescent lamp.