[Aho Nale Kardan Dokhtar Irani Dar Hale Kon Dadan
Sacha Weakland
Welcome. Khooneh-ye khodetooneh.... consider me a good friend -- ora kind aunt if you prefer. Tell me what's on your mind. I'll listen carefullyto whatever is bothering you and try to give you some honest advice. Let'shave a chat... email me at kkh...@yahoo.com
Man Ye Moshkel`e Taghriban Bozorg Daram . Man Ashegh Nemisham HameChiz Baram Mamooli Be Nazar Mirese. Kheyli Say Kardam Yeki Ra Doost DashteBasham, Vali Natonestam. Ta Inja Ke Mohem Nist , Migzare.
Pesar joon, ghorboonet beram, shomaa keh moshkel nadari -- koshgeli!man nemeedonam chera, vali khanom haaye javan ham az mard beetafaavot, khosheshanmeeayad. nassihate man be shomaa ineh keh khodaa raa shokr konid taa nobateashegh shodan shomaa ham bereseh.
dar zemn har cheh zoodtar be aan dokhtar khanom rok va beeshookhi begooidkeh ehssasi doosti baraye oo darid vali na eshghi. be oo befahmanid kehin bekhater oo neest balkeh shomaa osoolan injoor hasteed. har cheh mehrabantarbaa oo bashid behtar. vali oo raa beeshtar az in vasvasseh nakonid.
My name is Corrina Ghods-Mofidi and I was fathered by an Iranian fatherwhom I have never met, and who has hid and neglected to be a father to mewishing to disown the "love child" he made with my mother, whonever bothered me much.
My mother married an Egyptian man when I was two years old. Monirmy dad (not my biological father), however, has always been great to me,and I love him as much as if he were my own biological father with my threehalf brothers.
I am getting ready to finish my undergraduate work, turning twenty-oneand wishing to start my masters degree etc. I sometimes wonder what my fatheris like. My mother always says I look and act exactly like the void whomy mother loved and lost some 21 some odd years ago.
Should I go out of my way to find the Iranian who is my father? ShouldI be happy for what I am blessed with and forget about the man who createdme? He did run from my mother every time she would try and find him.
I do know a couple of Iranian cases like yours. It is a real shame thatyour father has to miss out on having such a daughter as you. It must bereally hard to grow up wondering what your father is like, who he is?
I, as a mother, can never understand child abandonment and consider itcriminal. I really do not know what to say. Deciding to find him or notis a very personal decision. If he runs away each time your mother triesto reach him maybe he will do the same with you. Although if you let himknow that you want no money from him you may find that he runs less. Also,he is probably older now than when your mother contacted him last so maybehe will be more open to you.
Whatever you do prepare for the worst so you do not get disappointed.If I were you I would want to find him just so that it would not nag meforever. You may find out that you were lucky not to have grown up withhim around. Or he may open up and have a dialogue with you which may beenriching.
Just remember that whoever you are and whatever name you bear, you areyou. A citizen of this world. Probably young and full of promise. Keep yourconfidence and remember parentage, name and nationality are at some leveljust for filling forms. What really counts is mental clarity and inner confidence.What is more important in the formation of character is what you make ofyourself regardless, and sometimes despite your parentage.
Having said this though I understand how you would have a need to knowthis father of yours. Remember that if you hate him you will not get toknow him even if you do find him. So give him the benefit of the doubt ifyou do find him. Maybe he will learn from you and you from him.
be nazare man shoma hagh nadaryd ke be khoone shahydan tohin konid.man ro az in hezbollahiha farz nakonid. man kheyly karha mikonam ke hattaoon bachche soosoolhayi ke shoma bahashoon saro kar daryn be zehneshoonnemirese.
pedare man dorane sarbazyash dar jang separy shod. kasi oona ro bezoor nabord. shoma be tanhayi hagh nadaryd be anha tohin konid. aghideyeshoma faslolkhetab nist. momkene aghideye oonhayi ke be zoor bordan dorostbashe. momken ham hast ke aghideye shoma dorost bashe. kasy ettela nadare.nazare nahayi ra khoda midahad. man ham mesle shoma az in hokoomat narazyhastam va mikhaham az an joda shavam va an ra az beyn bebaram vali na badalayele shoma.
rastesh man az in bachche mamaniha ke baraye shoma name midan fogholademotennafer hastam. oonha maenaye eshgh ro nemifahman. oonha sher mikhoonanbaraye poz. eshgh mibazan baraye poz. oonha fased hastan. tamameshoon albattena! vali agar az kheyly az oonha pool ro begiry dyge eshghi barashoon vojoodnadare.
kobra khanoome azyz! shoma rahnamaye lezzate ye goroohe lezzat talabshodyd. shoma mehmandare jahhannam hastyd. agar vaghean mikhahyd ke nazaretanra be dyde omoom begozaryd ta dygaran nazar bedahand.
nameye mara hamanja too hamoon varaghy ke soosoolha name midan chapkonid. albatte maloom ast ke roobah domash hamishe shahedash hast. man benazaryate shoma ehteram migozaram va shoma ra jaye madar ya khahare bozorgekhodam mibinam.
man az bahs khosham meeyad chon ensaan saaz ast. tanafor ha ra roo meekonadva komak meekonad keh anha tabdil shavand be tafavot fekri na tanafor. mandarde shomaa raa meefahmam. amma in bacheh soosool haa keh shomaa beheshoontanafor dareed beeaazaar hastand. man ham ba inkeh as taasoobaat mazhabeefaraaree hastam az ahameeyate ziyad beh madiyat ham khosham nemeeayad. vahamantor az doroogh va mobalegheh ham badam dar meeayad.
man momken ast keh nassihat konam keh lezat bad neest vali hamisheh saaymeekonam keh zed doroogh va tazahor sohbat konam. man baraye kessani kehbaraye hefz mamlekat jang kardehand khaili ehteram ghael hastam vali asanaan keh bachehaa raa be jang meeferestand -- be onvane yek madar -- monzjerhastam. vali baa anhaa ham jangi nadaram.
man faghat az anha va shomaa meeporsam keh aya be azadeye andisheh aghidehdareed? aya yek ensaan be ghole shomaa fased bayad zendani shavad ya sangsar?aya in dorost ast keh soosoolha raa shalagh mizananad? aya inhameh tanaforbaraye yek mamlekat ghabele hazm ast? cheghadr tool meekeshad taa az tanafortikeh tikeh shavad?
har kessi ravesh zendegiye khodash raa bayad hagh dashteh bashad entekhabkonad. va az kessi na tarssad. man ham injaa bayad hagh in raa daashtehbaasham keh ba shomaa mashverat ya bahs konam. in ast maaneeye jaameye madani.
man heechvaght nesbat beh shomaa ya hezbollahiha tanafor nadaram. shomaaraa pesar va baradar khodam meedanam. maa hameh az yek khak o havaeem shomaamazhabi hasteed man neestam vali in tafavot beyn maa na man ra ghool beedom meekonad na shomaa raa. anhaee keh az ma azady khahan ghool meesazandaz azadi tars va vahemeh darand.
kari keh kassi dar takhtekhabash meekonad be kassi rabti nadarad. benazare man fessad moghehyee ast keh be deegari zarar beresanad. massalanmashroob khordan bad neest vali agar dar hale masstee kassi raa bezaneedan vaght ast keh bayad ghanoon dekhalat konad. sex beyn do zoje balleghgonah neest vali shohar daadane dokhtare 12 saleh keh khodash ghoveh-yetassmim geeree nadarad gonah ast.
I am a 21-year-old young man, finishing up my undergraduate education.Recently, I have noticed that many of my friends, and even my own family,have been critical of me, because I do not take any time of my scheduleto experience "haal" and "eshgh", specifically spendingtime with girls.
Let me just come out and say that I am a red-blooded heterosexual.Anyway, they say to me that if I don't spend some time with the oppositesex and enjoy life fuller, then I will slowly ostricize myself from thesocial world around me.
As I mentioned earlier, I am finishing up my undergraduate education,and I have atleast four more years of medical education ahead of me, startingnext fall. I am a very serious student and spend almost all of my time andenergy on my studies, and as a result, I barely have any time left for the"pleasures" of life.
I want to ask you, one who is an objective and keen observer of allsuch matters, whether this apparent "obliviousness" on my part,which everyone has been commenting on, will really hurt me in the long run.I am not asking for anyone's pity, nor am I trying to gather attention ontomyself. Your kind attention is greatly appreciated.
Haal which could be interpreted as joi de vivre or joy for life is aloaded term. What gives you haal or joy may be your studies and the prospectof being to help others get over diseases in the near future. So tell yourcritics that infact you are baa haal -- only not their type of haal.
Now I do think that you should always take seriously criticism that comesfrom people who love you and know you because as we say in Farsi peopledo not say many things if there is not a little to be said -- aagar nabashadcheezi mardom nagooyand cheezhaa. So maybe there is a little truth in theircomments.
Maybe you should try to loosen up and see if you can enjoy their typeof haal. As a doctor you need to empathize with your patients and the bestway to do that is to experience as many different kinds of pleasure,as longas it is not harmful to anyone, as possible. The more you know about theintricacies of life the better a doctor you will eventually be.
esme man n ast. 15 mahe pish ezdevaj kardam ba mardi 23 sale. az hamenazar khob ast vali yek moshkele bozorg daram. vagti ke mikhahim sex dashtebashim oon sari bedone hich moghaddeme shoro mikonad ,zood dakhel va tolombemizanad va hodode yek dagige tamam mikonad vali baraye man besyar bad astchon ta mikhaham ehsase sex bekonam oo joda mishavad.
man tajrobe sex ghablan dashtam va an nafar hodode nim saat tamasdashtin bad sex ra shoro mikard va baraye man kheli lezzat bakhsh bood.har che be shoharam migoyam ghbl az in kar kami belaasim migoyad intor behtarast. oo khodash kheili keif mikonad vali man na.
shomaa dobareh saaye konid keh oo raa raazi konid keh onjoor keh shomaameekhjahid baa shomaa eshgh baazi konad. be oo begooid keh fargh beyn maaensanhaa va heyvanat in ast keh maa meetavaaneem raabeteye jensiye do jaanebehdaashteh baasheem. agar een massalehye zood tamaam kardan edaameh peydaakard meetavaanad az doktor komak begeerad.
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