Let me get this right, the address in "Options/Application/Data transfer external address" is the internet visible address of the client, not the server. So each client will have different settings, each according their internet visible IP, am I right?
Regarding Openfire's proxy, I'm not really following you there. In Psi's account settings, in the "Connection" tab, I can see the setting for "Connection Proxy", but as I understand it (guess it) it's for the overall connection, namely chats & messages. Openfire proxy, as I understand it, handles only file transfer (port 7777) and media (port 10000-20000). So how can I use it?
FYI, I haven't read the manual, cos if you read my other post, I have trouble connecting to the wiki.
Thanks