One
of the strongest emotional forces of human emotion is anger. We all
tend to get angry from time to time. Even though anger stems out from
different reasons, a lot of times
it rather stems out due to personal
reasons. And this is something we will focus on this week, insha Allah.
If
something happens and we are angered by a brother/sister, then our
anger towards him/her should not last more than three days.
The Prophet
(sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam) talked about this in numerous ahadith.
Hence, we will only focus on a few
of them.
Firstly, from the Qur’an:
1.
"The believers are nothing else than brothers (in Islamic religion). So make reconciliation between your brothers.'' (49:10)
Secondly, from the Ahadith:
1.
Anas bin Malik (May Allah be pleased with him) said: The Messenger of Allah (PBUH) said, "Do
not desert (stop talking to) one another, do not nurse hatred towards
one another,
do not be jealous of one another, and become as fellow
brothers and slaves of Allah. It is not lawful for a Muslim to stop
talking to his brother (Muslim) for more than three days.''
[Al-Bukhari and Muslim]
2.
Abu Ayyub Al-Ansari (May Allah be pleased with him) said: The Messenger of Allah (PBUH) said, "It
is not lawful for a Muslim to desert (stop talking to) his brother
beyond three nights,
the one turning one way and the other turning to
the other way when they meet, the better of the two is one who is the
first to greet the other.''
[Al-Bukhari and Muslim]
3.
Abu Hurairah (May Allah be pleased with him) said: The Messenger of Allah (PBUH) said, "It
is not permissible for a believer to forsake his (Muslim) brother for
more than three days.
If three days have passed, he should meet him and
greet him; and if other responds to it they will both share the reward;
but if he does not respond, he will bear his sin and the one
who (has
taken the initiative to) greet (the other) will be absolved of the sin
of forsaking (one's brother in Faith).''
[Abu Dawud]
Alhumdulillah, this topic was suggested by a sister; may Allah reward her. This is a perfect example of how one can contribute to this project, bi idhnillah.
Praise be to Allah and may the blessings be upon His Final Messenger Muhammad (sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam).
And Allah knows best.
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