Project "Revive a Sunnah" Review Series! (14 &15)

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Abu Nûh Al-Bosnawi

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Review Series: Weeks 14 & 15

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Week 14: "No Secrecy"

This week's topic deals with a bad social practice some of us have. It happens when, within a group of three people, two people hold a secret conversation. It's a feeling of being left out and it can be painful for the one who experiences it.


From the Ahadith:

1.

Ibn `Umar (May Allah be pleased with them) said: the Messenger of Allah (PBUH) said, "In the presence of three people, two should not hold secret counsel, to the exclusion of the third .''
[Al-Bukhari and Muslim]

In Abu Dawud, Abu Salih related: I asked Ibn `Umar: "What if there are four people.'' He said, "There is no harm in that.''


2.

Ibn Mas`ud (May Allah be pleased with him) said: The Messenger of Allah (PBUH) said, "When three of you are together, two of you must not converse privately ignoring the third till the number increases, lest the third should be grieved .''
[Al-Bukhari and Muslim]


This is an issue we see in our community. Since we live in a very diverse community, it's not always a matter of talking in secret, but it's also an issue of talking in a different language. You might see two people talking in their own language on the expense of third person who speaks a different language. I don't believe people do it on purpose. Maybe it's something they don't think twice about, or maybe they aren't aware of the Prophet's (sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam) advice. In any case, we should avoid any possible ways of hurting our fellow Muslims. Even though this might seem like a minor thing, it didn't pass by without the Prophet (sal Allahu alahyi wa sallam) addressing it . 


Week 15: "Finishing Off"


We are not angels. We are human beings who make mistakes and commit sins. Even then, Allah has given us the potential to be the best of creation. Likewise we have the potential to be the worst of creation. May Allah make us of the first type. Ameen!

We are social beings, as created by the All-Mighty. When we get together with our friends and talk, the topic of the discussion is not always related to Islam or the Afterlife. It so happens that a lot of the times it may be worldly-related. What did the Prophet (sal Allahu alahyhi wa sallam) teach us to do in such gatherings?

From the Ahadith:

1.
Abu Hurairah (May Allah be pleased with him) reported: Messenger of Allah (PBUH) said, "Whoever sits in a gathering and indulges in useless talk and before getting up supplicates: `Subhanaka Allahumma wa bihamdika, ash-hadu an la ilaha illa Anta, astaghfiruka wa atubu ilaika (O Allah, You are free from every imperfection; praise be to You. I testify that there is no true god except You; I ask Your Pardon and turn to You in repentance),' he will be forgiven for (the sins he may have intentionally or unintentionally committed) in that assembly.''
[At-Tirmidhi]

2.
Abu Barzah (May Allah be pleased with him) reported: Towards the end of his life, Messenger of Allah (PBUH) would supplicate before leaving an assembly thus: "Subhanaka Allahumma wa bihamdika, ash-hadu an la ilaha illa Anta, astaghfiruka wa atubu ilaika (O Allah, You are free from every imperfection; all praise is for You. I testify that there is no true god except You, I ask Your forgiveness and turn to You in repentance).'' A man once said to him: "O Messenger of Allah! You have spoken such words as you have never uttered before.'' He said, "It is an expiation of that which goes on in the assembly.''
[Abu Dawud]

OK, you might be thinking: "Yes, but the Imam or the Shaykh recites this du'a all the time after he gives a lecture." That's exactly the issue we are trying to address. The problem is that this beautiful du'a taught by the Prophet (sal Allahu alahyhi wa sallam) only gets recited in "Islamic" gatherings. Think about it. When was the last time you got together with your friends to hang out, and before leaving you made this du'a? Knowing the ahadith, wouldn't it be better if we were to incorporate this du'a into our everyday lives? Wouldn't it be better if we were to recite this du'a after an hour of talking about sports, for example?


Praise be to Allah and may the blessings be upon His Final Messenger Muhammad (sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam).

And Allah knows best.

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