Lombok does not currently offer a way to do this. It sounds far too exotic to do so; we'd have to either have a removeBar method for all builders, which sounds a bit over-engineered and confusing for normal (not 'toBuilder' based) scenarios, and in addition would eliminate the ability to use guava, which would be a bad idea in general, and break backwards compatibility, or, we'd have to generate this method only if you use the toBuilder form.
Not a feasible idea, I'm afraid.