Show Menubar from Word directly without user intervention. How???

[Andreas]

Hi

A: MDI-Application
B: Window with OLEControl(Word).

When opening B it always shows the menubar from A or no menubar.

1. case OLE is not activated
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The user clicks on the OLEControl. Control is activated and menubar
from word is shown.

2. case OLE is activeted in open-script of B
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The menubar from A is shown.
The user clicks somewhere else on B but not on the OLEControl. The
OLEControl gets deactivated and the menubar disappears.
The user clicks on the OLEControl again and the the menubar form word
is shown.

Is there no way to show the menubar from word directly without user
intervention?
I tried everything with posting the activation etc...

Best regards
Andreas