In general, I would look closely at the configuration that MailMate and Apple mail are using. In particular,
- how they are authenticating
In apple mail, preferences -> accounts -> advanced will show you the port, a checkbox for “Use SSL”., and a menu for Authentication. Auth methods include password, NTLM, MD5, and a few others.
There are two methods for doing SSL/TLS. The first I’ll call wrapped, and postbox calls just “SSL/TLS” - this typically runs on port 993. The second is STARTTLS and it’s typically on port 143.
Maybe try thunderbird - postbox is based on that.
Hope this helps, but beyond that I don’t think i can help much.