Hi Nathan,
Installing a package from a downloaded tar file is a bit of a pain to say the least and I have avoided it entirely. One thing I would highly recommend is to make sure that your R session is in a clean state every time you start it up by following the instructions here: https://r4epis.netlify.app/welcome/#configuring-rstudio
If you are willing, you can install {vcfR} directly from its
source on GitHub with the {remotes} package. Because {vcfR} needs
a C++ compiler, you will need to install XCode to get things to
work: https://developer.apple.com/xcode/resources/
After you install XCode, you can install the {remotes} package
from CRAN and then use remote::install_github("knausb/vcfR") to
install from the source on GitHub
(https://github.com/knausb/vcfR#readme)
This will ask you if you want to install and or update the
dependencies necessary for vcfR and then install vcfR from source,
which will take a couple of minutes.
Otherwise, you can wait to install vcfR once it's available on
CRAN again (maybe a week or two).
Best,
Zhian