It turns out you can more conveniently just use:
--enable-native-access=javafx.graphics,javafx.media,javafx.web
Or even:
--enable-native-access=ALL-UNNAMED
The latter could be placed in the manifest file when the Polarbar jar is built instead. It does, as might be expected, re-open use of native code to more than just the parts of JavaFX which need it.
Any of them can be placed in a JDK_JAVA_OPTIONS environment variable instead of on the command line (or manifest.)