1. Oops, both should read --export in the documentation. Thanks for reporting this anomaly, it has been fixed.
Anyway, yes, "--recode vcf" still works since it's just translated to "--export vcf". What you can no longer do with plink 2.0 is "--recode" with no modifier.
2. While PGEN can store dosages, it cannot store per-genotype probabilities. If you are performing an analysis where dosages aren't good enough and you actually need per-genotype probabilities, you shouldn't use PLINK2.
3. PLINK2 does not require true REF alleles to exist. Ordinary .bed+.bim+.fam filesets don't have reliable information about REF/ALT, so PLINK2 marks REF alleles imported from them as provisional (until something like --ref-allele or --ref-from-fa is applied).