Society & Sex

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I found this article while surfing the web and though it was very
interesting so i thought i would copy it to my blog for you guys to
read!

Most men feel that they are much more sexual than women. After all,
men think about sex every 2 to 5 minutes or so they say. Men also
think that they have to talk women into having sex. Most men have been
taught to be good boys or gentlemen and to suggest sex to a woman is
insulting.

So what is the actual reality of women and sex? It took me ages to
realize this, but women are much more sexual than men. In fact, they
are much more sexual than most men can ever imagine.

To get an idea of this, read any women's sexual fantasy book. Women's
sexual fantasies are much more developed than just about any mans.
They can be elaborate and emotional and very descriptive and powerful.
They incorporate taboo subjects, such as being dominated or in bondage
and can be very slutty.

So why do most of us think that women don't like sex that much. I feel
that parents teach their girls that you must be in love and in a
committed relationship or married for sex. So their daughter will not
go out and have sex and get pregnant. Society also says that a woman
who really loves sex is a slut. Men are studs if they have a lot of
sex with many women. A woman that has multiple partners is called a
slut. This is why that even although a women love sex they will not
admit this to someone that they do not know. Women do not want to be
treated as objects.

Many women and some men too have had sexual abuse in their past. Some
of us have had religious guilt about sex and masturbation. These
factors can cripple the enjoyment of sex and intimacy. It takes a lot
of healing before sex can be really enjoyed after abuse. I feel all of
us have had some negative conditioning about sex. You were born as the
result of an orgasm. Why not celebrate that fact! Other societies have
celebrated the sex orgasms. Why not western societies?

When you walk down the street, do you hear men and women having
orgasms? Not usually. Most of us block our sounds in sex due to our
sexual shame. In my private practice as a sexologist, one aspect I
suggest is to open up to the natural sounds during sex. If you block
the sounds you block the full range of energy in your body.

In fact, I suggest to experiment making huge sounds into a pillow so
not to deafen your lover. Men love a responsive woman that makes
orgasmic sounds but most not want to do the same. Talking to women, I
am surprised about how bad most men are as lovers. What is even more
surprising is that most women put up with this!

Most men's orgasms are only a minute or two in length. However, a
woman has the potential to have 2 to 3 hour orgasms even without
stimulation. I have known several women that have explored the
possibility of being orgasmic when working in an office! Most men do
not realize this, but they can have orgasms without ejaculation. So I
would like to leave you with the thought that women love sex. Women
love to be naughty and slutty. Try some dirty talking during your next
sexual experience.

Hi there guys I guess thats some food for thought? Now that you know
your partner is really a secret sex maniac why not come and check out
The Pleasure Zone and pick her up some little sexual treats?

Well guys what did you think of that then please comment and let us
know what you think.

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