Don,
Cool that you are getting going. The jig joiner works Ok but we never use them. I prefer to use a chop saw with an abrasive cutting blade to get close and then use aviation snips to trim the tubes to fit. Most of the time, once you get the hang of it, you can mark and snip the tubes to fit without grinding. This works really well on 035 and 049 tubes. 058 is a bit harder but can be done. for those that are too thick, chop saw close and then grind.
For the welding, we use Miller but Lincoln is good too. Look for a unit with about 180 or so amp range and a start amp of 5 amp or less. Some older or lower cost tig machines start at 10 or more amps when you light the tourch and that is enough to burn away the thin materials used to make tail ribs, etc. Air cooled touch is fine too and you can get small ones from places like tig depot, etc.
Tig welding is by far the way to go with these types of structures. You can gas weld it, sure. But there are places where you have really thick attaching to very thin and that is hard to do with a torch, easier with TIG.
No need to post heat the TIG joints. Note I called it post heat and not stress relieve as it is more commonly referred to. It is not stress relieve. and can actually be stress inducing or stress relocating in nature. Torch normalizing is what is actually done when you heat a welded structure with a torch to try and return all the metal to the condition N state. The problem is you cannot heat enough of the structure, (best to heat it all at one time equally) to prevent movement of the material and mossibly inducing stresses you didn't have before. So, nice tight fits of the tubes at the joints, weld in the sequence indicated on the drawings, and you will get a good fuselage.
Dillsburg has closed up. We used them as a vendor for years and Charles Vogelsong retired and sold off his inventory. Too bad, he was a cool guy and had great service.