I Wanna Fuck This Girl
Katerine Aldrige
Do you want to stare at this girl for socially unacceptable amounts of time? Do you think she smells like good poetry? Have you memorized the order of her Facebook profile photos purely by accident? Yeah, you might like a girl. Your feelings for another girl don't mean the world is going to collapse around you though! Promise! As for whether this crush means you're gay...the truth of the matter is that nobody can answer that but yourself. There are no rules: You don't have to label yourself gay or lesbian or queer or any other word simply over butterfly feelings. In fact, you don't ever have to label yourself.
Sexuality is more than a spectrum or a gay-straight binary with bi firmly in the middle. There are a bajillion places being a girl who likes a girl might lead. You could realize you're 100% only into girls, but it might also mean you like kissing girls but really want a relationship with guys, or maybe it means something else entirely. The possibilities are truly endless.
As 19-year-old Isabela Villareal explains, "I identify as queer because I believe sexuality is a fluid concept. While I might fall for a woman now, I may develop a crush on a trans man some day. My sexuality and attraction to people doesn't rely on gender." But remember: Identification isn't for everyone, and there's no need to rush. "Labeling is more harmful than helpful to me because I'm so new to this," says 20-year old Naomi Waltengus. "I'm hesitant to give myself a label that might not fit. I don't want people questioning me or asking me to prove myself."
So rather than categorizing yourself the second there's a Valentine in your heart, take a minute to breathe: Your feelings don't have to dictate your entire identity from now until forever. Let the feelings exist, and accept that you have them. You can deal as they come and go.
Well, if you begin venturing into your school's queer community or go to events in your neighborhood, you might have that question answered without even having to ask. If those resources aren't available to you, fear not. Swing your way into the same social settings as her and find a way to talk one-on-one. If she stares right back at you until you blush, lean in a little closer and gauge her reaction. You can also totally just flirt with her and see if she flirts back! Girls have an advantage over guys in the flirting department because the power dynamics are different (and thus the creepiness factor is all but gone). Even if she isn't gay and doesn't return the flirtation (or if she is gay, but isn't into you), your compliment might still make her day. I mean, wouldn't you love if the Cool Girl at School complimented you? You're the Cool Girl in this situation, so there's nothing to lose.
My pal Lola Pellegrino (who was featured as one of NYC's most eligible bachelorettes, so you know she's fighting off the babes) has some solid advice on how to tell if a girl likes you: "If after a few encounters you find yourself reading into her texts and deconstructing your last hangout session for clues, she's probably not interested. Caveat: In my experience, like everyone else on the planet, girls are hesitant to show interest, and there's a lot of waiting around for the other person to make a move. This is why you, Questioning Teen Vogue Reader, are going to be proactive. If you're in the waiting scenario I described, make a move yourself!"
Approach her like a person you want to be friends with! If you're the super confident type, you might just hand her your number and smile assertively after telling her she's cute and you'd like to get to know her better. If you're shyer? Here's a fool-proof tip, courtesy of writer Krista Burton: "Ask her about herself! If she's saying one word for every 10 of yours, she's probably not interested at the moment."
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This article was co-authored by LeTisha Underwood. LeTisha Underwood is a Certified Professional Matchmaker and the CEO of Two Hearts Exclusive Matchmaking Services. With more than five years of experience, she specializes in helping marriage-minded people find their life partners. LeTisha holds a Matchmaker Certification from The Global Love Institute.
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