Can you "borrow" the Pi4 to start to set up the SD card and core functionality? Then move it to a different RPi
I have both a PiDP-8 and a PiDP-11 [both from the first batch] running on a circa 2015 (original edition 32-bit) RPi 2, and both run fine. Way more performance than a PDP 11/70 or a PDP-8/i
The Pi Zero 2 W has about the same processor performance and is 64-bit, but it has 1/2 memory and most importantly, a hardware ethernet.
WiFi is an issue when running emulated hosts (via SimH). It's not SimH's fault; the problem is that few (if any) hosted OS's TCP/IP stack is aware of a wireless operation when those OSs are being run — and there isn't much SimH can do about it/fake out reality. Think about it; in June 1983, IEEE 802.3/Ethernet was published, defining the core functions we all use. It was not until 1997 that IEEE 802.1 [a.k.a. "WiFi"] came on the scene. While .11 was based on .3, it is not the same and has characteristics that later IP implementations began to acknowledge. Unfortunately for you, when ya user configure the networking stack in 2.11BSD [like TOPS-20 for the PiDP-10], it thinks it's talking to an actual DEC DEUNA or DELUA [or if emulating a QBUS DEQNA/DELQA]. The >> hosted OS really thinks it is on a direct connection wire.
Please be aware that when setting up the networking between the get SIMH configure and the hosted OS, there are many ways it can go wrong. You can make it work, though there can be some annoying corner cases if you have a wireless connection for the network support in RPi hosting SIMH. But it is not a recommended first instance.
My primary suggestion would be to take another RPi with a traditional RJ45 and plug it into a network hub before you touch the kit. They are just concentrating on getting the core Linux functionality running, particularly if you are planning to use it sans a keyboard and display. I might suggest starting with a display and keyboard, then turning on VNC and ensuring it works properly. Or if you plan to really go without graphics on the RPi via its serial console, there are plenty of ways to have issues.
Once everything in RPi land is working well, install the PiDP-11 software. It will run fine without Oscar's hardware. Bring up 2.11BSD [pro tip. Start without the network for 2.11BSD; enable it after you're sure the basics are working. If you want, and the RPi needs it, add a USB WiFI dongle. But it would be a good time to ensure that Linux can see the Wi-Fi adapter, then try setting it up. If you want to try to disconnect from the actual Ethernet and see how well 2.11.BSD handles being faked out [if you have issues, do a search on archives for this group, there are several ways this can break and what has been done about it].
So you now yopu have bits on an SD that match your intended use case; at this point, I would recommend making an image of the SD [so you know you can always get back to this point].
Now plug a USB-to-ethernet adapter into the RPi Zero platform and move the SD card you just set up to the other RPi. At this point, functionality has not really changed. If you have issues, debug them here. You might want to try to figure out what is different besides the CPU switch. It would be good to answer why the problem did not occur before. Or can put the SD card back into the original RPi and see if you see that same issue now. [Rince and repeat ...]
Assuming you now have everything working as you desire, try removing the USB toEthernet. Are there errors, what are they?
If you get here, we can now confirm you are ready to run the RPi Zero 22W with the configured SD card. Go back to Oscar's instructions for when you match the RPi with his board and proceed from there.