Jeff,
From Oscar's PiDP-8/I web site:
"Compatible with the Raspberry Pi 4, 3, 2, B+, A+, Zero W & Zero"
And from the PiDP-11/70 web site:
"Compatible with the Pi 4, 3, 2, B+, A+, and Zero (W)Recommended: Pi 4, 3 or 2."
"I’m wondering if a Pi 3 Model A+ will work. Any problems with this?
E.g. I see the PiDP-11 board is silkscreened for a Model B .. will the Model A+ also mount to the existing holes?"
From what I can tell the A+ board is a bit shorter (in the direction of the GPIO pins) than the 2, 3, and 4. It will mount into the GPIO header but only the mounting screws on the uSD card side of the Pi will match. The mounting holes on the USB connector side of the Pi won't match. On the other hand, that really shouldn't matter in the long run.
If CPU capacity/load is a concern, another thing that can significantly reduce load is to run SIMH throttled to realistic speeds. I guess I've always been more of a retro-purist and think if you're going to run retro systems they ought to run at realistic speeds, too. When throttled realistically, both the -8/I and the -11/70 use only about 10-20% of the CPU capacity on a 3B or 3B+. In that case, it really shouldn't matter much which Pi you use in which PiDP.
Cheers,
-- steve