OK, I reinstalled with Raspberry Pi OS Lite. The install didn't end as clean as the Desktop install. But, I realize there is no LXDE so I assume it's OK. I rebooted and could get to the command line using HDMI or SSH. I got the PiDP-11/70 boot menu. I could also exit (I couldn't before) this menu with Ctrl-A d. Here are the last few install messages...
Selecting previously unselected package screen.
Preparing to unpack .../screen_4.8.0-6_armhf.deb ...
Unpacking screen (4.8.0-6) ...
Setting up libutempter0:armhf (1.2.1-2) ...
Setting up screen (4.8.0-6) ...
Processing triggers for install-info (6.7.0.dfsg.2-6) ...
Processing triggers for libc-bin (2.31-13+rpt2+rpi1+deb11u5) ...
Processing triggers for man-db (2.9.4-2) ...
/opt/pidp11/install/install.sh: 20: cannot create /etc/xdg/lxsession/LXDE-pi/autostart: Directory nonexistent
-bash: : command not found
pi@raspberrypi:/opt/pidp11 $
It's still somewhat slow...but not unbearable.
Here with the PDP software running, is the top...of "top" :)
Thanks for everyone's input!