Hi Ricardo,
Pi4J SPI is built on top of the WiringPi C library and unfortunately I don't see any method to control the bit order in WiringPi.
I also was reading in the forums that some some users have stated that the RPI did not support changing the bit order in the hardware. That information may have been old or may have only applied to SPI0, I'm not really sure.
Can you point me to C code example you are referring to? I'm curious if they are using bit-banging in code to pull this offer or which library they may be using to communication SPI on the Pi.
Thanks, Robert