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Albert, I will not be able to join the dinner on Nov 13. I had extended my stay in Taipei since my mother-in-law passed away the past Tuesday. It was a bad month for me since I just lost my mother in Oct.
Have a great gathering. Sorry that I will miss the chance to meet with Prof. Chiang this time.
CK
Dear CK, I am sorry you lost both mothers in a month. You have my deepest sympathy. You and Shu-Yu take good care of yourselves, Wan
Wan Y. Shih
School of Biomedical Engineering
Science, and Health Systems
Drexel University
Philadelphia, PA 19104
Phone: 215-895-2325
Fax: 215-895-4983
Email: shi...@drexel.edu
Dear CK, I am sorry you lost both mothers in a month. You have my deepest sympathy. You and Shu-Yu take good care of yourselves, Wan
Wan Y. Shih
School of Biomedical Engineering
Science, and Health Systems
Drexel University
Philadelphia, PA 19104
Phone: 215-895-2325
Fax: 215-895-4983
Email: shi...@drexel.edu
Dear Albert and CK,
Yes, my wife and myself will attend CK’s mother-in-law’s funeral. I will let you know if there is anything we can do.
CK, please let us know when and where the funeral will be. Take care.
All the best,
Steve
Dear Albert and all,
CK’s mother-in-law’s funeral has finished this morning. CK and his wife are fine, although sad. They will stay in Taiwan for some more days and then return to California. I will meet CK next time when he is back.
All the best,
Steve
From:
STP-Steve Peng
Sent: Friday, November 12, 2010
3:33 PM
To: 'phy...@googlegroups.com'; Lee
L Liou; C.K. Cheng
Cc: Dr. Wen-Guey Wu; Heng-Ching
Chiang; Bill Tung; Joan Peng; hmKAO; ytYEN; rchsu; jjt; gtp_w...@yahoo.com;
C.HER; aht...@yahoo.com; C.WANG; whSHIH; Wan Y. Shih; yfCHEN; S.CHAO; mwLEE;
F.LIN; Ben Chen; Hoton How; E.JOU; W.G.WU
Subject: RE: Phys 76 dinner gathering
on Nov. 13
Dear Albert and CK,
Yes, my wife and myself will attend CK’s mother-in-law’s funeral. I will let you know if there is anything we can do.
CK, please let us know when and where the funeral will be. Take care.
All the best,
Steve
From: phy...@googlegroups.com [mailto:phy...@googlegroups.com] On Behalf Of albert yian
Sent: Friday, November 12, 2010
2:36 PM
To: Lee L Liou; C.K. Cheng
清華物理76級同學會; Hoton How; E.JOU; W.G.WU; Albert Yian
Wan, Wei-Heng, Lee-Yeh, Joseph, Steve, and Albert, thank you for the comforting words.
It was certainly a great loss for me, Teresa, and our children. I hope it was also a great teaching for us about life. My mother was 92. My mother-in-law was 90. They had earned the respect from their children and grandchildren to them through their graceful aging process, something I am striving to achieve too.
The following is a short essay my second son wrote after learning the death of my mother. The best way to honor our parents, I guess, is to make sure the good quality they possess will be passed on from generation to generation.
CK
In this grand family tree, the fruit can hardly fathom the root. Blithely hanging over the ground, not often does it consider its foundations - the branch, the root, and the precarious states the tree once weathered prior to its being.
There are a few things I know firsthand about Grandma. She was always delighted to see and hear from any of her 9 children and many more grandchildren, and to know that they were well. But Family encompassed more than blood; anyone whom her progeny selected as a husband, wife, or partner was treated the same love and respect. In the latest stages of her life, she formed a bond with her paid caretaker, and treated her in a way not unlike a granddaughter.
I remember as a child, sitting on her lap, and looking up and seeing the sublime smile of a consummate matriarch - an expression with nearly imperceptible qualities that could assure the most incorrigible of sinners that they are loved, no matter who they were or what they would become. I see that same smile etched in memories spanning years: as a fumbling teenager, ashamed of losing faculty in my mother tongue - and as an adult, kneeling beside her wheelchair, even as her body and mind were quickly fading.
But most things I know about my grandmother I only know through stories. She was born in 1918 in Beijing, China. She and her husband, my grandfather, a Kuomintang military officer, had 6 children and lived in the southern Yunnan province. They were separated when my grandfather was eventually stationed in Taiwan. When the Communists emerged victorious, my grandmother fled to Burma with a brother and two sons, while the others were left in the good hands of her own mother and siblings. In 3 years time, they relocated to Taiwan, reunited with my grandfather, and bore 3 more children, including my father. It wasn't until 1989 until the two sides reunited - nearly 40 years of separation.
To me and to others of my generation, these events are legends, folklore from time immemorial, the unrest that served as the backdrop of our peaceful times. It is astounding to consider the power of will and tireless love from which prosperous generations sprang forth and moved all over the world. I look at my father and see that her formidable essence remains on this Earth like a sarira; may it come to pass someday that I can recognize her virtues in myself.
If the humble fruit were to examine its beginnings, it would see a branch. If it looked further, it would see a root. Upon witnessing the totality of this tree, it would come to understand that the utter improbability of its peaceful existence is predicated by staggering greatness.
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Sent: Thursday, November 11, 2010 6:10 PM
To: C.K. Cheng; albert yian; Dr. Wen-Guey Wu; Heng-Ching Chiang; Bill
Tung; Joan Peng; hmKAO; ytYEN; rchsu; jjt; gtp_w...@yahoo.com
Cc: C.HER; aht...@yahoo.com; C.WANG; whSHIH; yfCHEN; STP-Steve Peng;
S.CHAO; mwLEE; F.LIN; Ben Chen; lee....@gmail.com; 清華物理76級同學會; Hoton How; E.JOU;
W.G.WU
Subject: RE: Phys 76 dinner gathering on Nov. 13
Dear CK, I am sorry you lost both mothers in a month. You have my deepest sympathy. You and Shu-Yu take good care of yourselves, Wan
Wan Y. Shih
School of Biomedical Engineering
Science, and Health Systems
Drexel University
Philadelphia, PA 19104
Phone: 215-895-2325
Fax: 215-895-4983
Email: shi...@drexel.edu
From: C.K. Cheng
[mailto:c...@harbingervc.com]
Sent: Thursday, November 11, 2010 8:15 PM
清華物理76級同學會; Hoton How; E.JOU; W.G.WU
Dear Albert and all,
CK’s mother-in-law’s funeral has finished this morning. CK and his wife are fine, although sad. They will stay in Taiwan for some more days and then return to California . I will meet CK next time when he is back.