Dan,
That's bad-luck for us but I respect your other personal and professional commitments. Without you we might be going slow. Last time, when I asked to join project, there were no one pushing to keep project on going and later my now 5 month old daughter kept me busy and I too forget about this project with time. Anyways this time around, we have Thet with us, he is young and I expect its his first open source project and I hope on going conversation will keep the project on going.
Thet,
Its important, especially if this is your first open source project, you will be disappointed if it do not reaches to a stable stage. The truth is, more than 95% open source projects never reaches to its first stable version; major reason is, team members do that in their free time and most of the time, they cant keep it going. I'm also a bit busy in with my professional life (bread and butter for me and my family), my 5 months old daughter need my time (personal life) and two other opensource projects, where I'm more serious and devote little extra time. It is difficult to work on three open source projects in parallel. So I'll be in the condition to guide you with necessary decision making if needed but don't expect me to do a lot of coding.
Now you have to take an important decision and answers to few questions (just to yourself, not to anyone else) will guide you to take that decision.
* Are you very serious towards this project?
* Can you invest at least 10 hours a week for at least an year. My quick estimation says its around 1000 hours project to reach its first usable stable version. (By usable version, I mean project reaches to the level where someone can find it practical to use) I can contribute around 150-200 hours in that. More is good but 10 hours/week is minimal requirement. By 10 hours a week, it will be approx 1.5 yrs project but once we reach up to certain level, we can attract more developers and I and Dan could also contribute little more time. So I still hope its one year project.
If answer to any of the above question is 'No', I'd suggest to drop the idea of this project. Leaving a project in middle after investing continuous time of your life for long is one of the most frustrating experiences. I know that because I experienced it while contributing to few failed open source projects. Few projects failed even at discussion stage, after few weeks of discussion; a frustrating experience. I'd not like you to have same experience.
Please do let me know if answer to both of above question is 'yes' and you want to continue with the project. If 'No' I could help you to join other open source projects with comparatively bigger team means better chances to reach its first stable version.
Thanks and regards,
Kapil Sharma.