Violet’s father had died young and her difficult mother, Pearl, had married her off to the tutor of her brother Charlie: Billie Bullivant, a rich young homosexual who entertained the likes of Noël Coward, Prince Felix Yusupov and Ivor Novello, and spent time with undergraduates at Cambridge, among them Cecil Beaton.
Violet returned from her honeymoon virgo intacta, so her marriage was annulled “by reason of the incapacity of the Respondent to consummate the marriage”. Donald Gregson was her second husband. They divorced in 1944, and she remarried and lived to be 100. In 1933 her brother, Charlie Hanson, was drowned, somewhat questionably, in the Thames, his head bashed in.
Following marriage to and divorce from Sally Ronaldson, in the mid-1960s Gregson embarked on a long-distance romance with Natalie Wood, who later moved in with him in Pimlico (where she was robbed of jewellery and furs worth £30,000). They married in May 1969, and had one daughter, Natasha, but they divorced the following year after Natalie had overheard him chatting too intimately to his secretary on the telephone.
Sally Ronaldson, whom he married in 1958, was Gregson’s first wife. They had two daughters and a son. They were divorced, and she died in 2003.
In 1984 he married, thirdly, Julia Gregson, whose 2009 novel, East of the Sun, won numerous prizes and was translated into 21 languages. They settled happily in North Wales and had a daughter.
Richard Gregson, born May 5 1930, died August 21 2019