Obit in the Times of 19 Dec 2022:
Belinda, Lady Montagu of Beaulieu obituary
Chatelaine of the Hampshire estate and expert embroiderer who offered sanctuary to David Cassidy at the height of his fame...[Lord] Montagu chose [to collect his bride for their 1958 marriage in] a 1906 Renault with brass carriage lamps and a regal, high-build carriage modelled on a belle époque French first-class railway carriage.
Although it was only a few miles, it was raining and he later noted in his autobiography Wheels Within Wheels that the vehicle arrived “agonisingly late”. Nevertheless, he recorded that the wedding “went well” and the new Lady Montagu went on to spend 16 years as the chatelaine of Palace House at Beaulieu, home of the Montagu family since 1538, where she supervised a staff of 30.
...Belinda knew from the outset that there was a certain risk involved in the marriage. Edward, who had succeeded to the title at the age of three, had once been regarded as Britain’s most eligible bachelor and a possible suitor to Princess Margaret...
... “One great advantage was that Belinda knew Beaulieu well, having been brought up there, and our families were old friends,” her husband wrote in his memoir. “She was therefore able to involve herself in local activities without problems, I was much aided by her cultivated tastes in redecorating the house and she was enormously supportive in the early days of the museum.”...
...The couple divorced in 1974. She never remarried and is survived by their son, Ralph Douglas-Scott-Montagu, born in 1961 and who succeeded as 4th Baron Montagu of Beaulieu on his father’s death in 2015; and their daughter the Hon Mary Montagu-Scott, who was born in 1964.
After the divorce Edward married Fiona Herbert, the second Lady Montagu, who took care of the two children from his first marriage. She later observed that the husband she inherited from the first Lady Montagu “only had one bride and that was Beaulieu”.
Elizabeth Belinda Crossley was born in 1932 on a farm on the Cadland estate at Fawley, Hampshire, the daughter of Sybelle (née Drummond) and Captain John Crossley. Her grandfather Savile Crossley was 1st Baron Somerleyton, although her father was a younger son and did not inherit the title...
...After her divorce she remained close friends with her former husband. They were often seen together and she continued to live nearby...
...Among her other commissions were presentation cushions for the late Queen and other members of the royal family and the kneelers for the wedding of Prince Edward and Sophie, Countess of Wessex at St George’s Chapel, Windsor, in 1999...
...She may have relinquished her status as lady of the manor long ago, but the art and craft of Lady Montagu lives on in the estate and surrounding area.
Lady Montagu of Beaulieu, embroiderer, was born on January 11, 1932. She died of undisclosed causes on December 15, 2022, aged 90https://www.thetimes.co.uk/article/belinda-lady-montagu-of-beaulieu-obituary-7gknmp8kc