Obit from the Times of 8 Nov 2022:
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Admiral of the Fleet Lord Boyce obituaryCold War submarine commander known as Iceman who later oversaw a controversial ‘hot war’ as chief of the defence staff...Michael Cecil Boyce was born in Cape Town in 1943 to Commander Hugh Boyce and his wife Madeleine (née Manley). His father had left school aged 13 but went on to become a power station manager before joining the Royal Navy during the war, and was awarded the DSC...
...He married Harriette Fletcher, a naval surgeon captain’s daughter, in 1971 and they had two children. They separated in 1994 and the union was finally dissolved in 2005. He is survived by his son, Hugo, an anaesthetist, and his daughter, Christine, a teacher at an international school in Spain...
...Friends have speculated that, fearing his health might buckle under the immense stress of high office, he delayed legally ending the marriage to ensure that Harriette and their children would have the maximum possible financial protection should he die young. A long-term platonic friendship with the widow of a close friend, Vice-Admiral Malcolm Rutherford, deepened and he and Fleur married on Trafalgar Day in 2006. Her early death ten years later from pancreatic cancer aged 67 left him devastated, and he later poignantly confessed that his charity work gave him “a reason to get out of bed every morning” after losing her...
Admiral of the Fleet Lord Boyce KG GCB OBE DL, former chief of the defence staff, was born on April 2, 1943. He died of cancer on November 6, 2022, aged 79https://www.thetimes.co.uk/article/admiral-of-the-fleet-lord-boyce-obituary-5vqgckxfb