She was the only d of Lt James LAVER CBE 1899-1975 and Bridget Veronica 1899-1971 d of Martin TURLEY of Bray, Ireland. She m 1954 Sir Robert (Robin) Lindley McEWEN 3rd Bt 1926-80 s of Sir John Helias Finnie McEWEN 1st Bt 1894-1962 and Bridget Mary d 1971 eldest dau of Rt Hon Sir Francis Oswald LINDLEY GCMG CB CBE 1872-1950 (s of the Law Lord Baron LINDLEY 1828-1921 and Sarah Katherine TEALE 1831-1912) and Hon Etheldreda Mary FRASER 1872-1949 d of 13th Lord LOVAT 1828-87, and had two sons (the 4th Bt and present 5th Bt) and four daus.