The 2nd Lord Denham, who has died aged 94, was an urbane and effective Chief Whip in the Lords throughout Margaret Thatcher’s premiership, personifying the case for hereditary peers at Westminster.
When they were limited to 92 seats in 1999, Denham, universally known as Bertie, was the Tory peers’ fourth most popular choice to stay on and represent them. By the time he retired in April this year, he was the longest-serving member of the House, having taken his seat in 1950....
Denham sold his father’s manor house at Weston Underwood, Buckinghamshire, soon after inheriting it. Apart from a period at Spencers, the former Essex home of Rab Butler, he always lived on the Bucks/Beds border. He divided his time between a cottage in his home village and an 18th-century house at Kilmore, near Oban; many heirlooms were lost when the latter was burgled in 1994.
Bertram Stanley Mitford Bowyer was born on October 3 1927, the younger son of the first Lord Denham, a whip in both Houses, and the former Daphne Freeman-Mitford, daughter of the 1st Lord Redesdale.
His elder brother was killed on active service with the RAF when Bertie was at Eton, so in 1948, on the death of his father, he succeeded to the barony of Denham, two years later also succeeding as 10th Baronet when a distant kinsman died....
Denham’s marriage to Jean McCorquodale in 1956 was punctuated by the moment every couple dreads: when Canon Charles Smyth asked if anyone knew of an impediment to their being wed, a voice from the back of St Margaret’s, Westminster, boomed out: “I do”.
Neither Denham nor his bride batted an eyelid; they knew the culprit was Lord Rayleigh, a friend of the McCorquodales who had recently proclaimed himself King. He was led away declaring: “Well, I’ve had my say.”
It later transpired that Rayleigh – who never gave his reasons – had alerted the celebrant in advance. Lady Denham declared the moment “the most horrible of my life”....
Denham opposed any tinkering with the hereditary principle. When New Labour sought to strip hereditaries of their voting rights, his tactical skills, and his senses of caution and parliamentary propriety, were of immense value to a party uncertain whether to die in the last ditch, lie low, or trump Labour with an even bolder reform.
He is survived by Lady Denham, three sons and a daughter. His eldest son, Richard Grenville George Bowyer, born in 1959, succeeds to the peerage and in the baronetcy.
Lord Denham, born October 3 1927, died December 1 2021