She was d of 12th Earl of CARLISLE MC 1923-94 and Hon Ela Hilda Aline BEAUMONT 1925-2002 d of 2nd Viscount ALLENDALE 1890-1956 and Violet Lucy Emily 1897-1979 d of Sir Charles Hilton SEELY 2nd Bt 1859-1926 and Hilda Lucy 1869-1939 d of Richard Tassell Anthony GRANT 1838-1902 and [as his 1st w] Lucy Ann WHITING 1841-71. She m 1st 1968 (div 1977) as his 1st w John David Vaughan 1946-2020 s of Lt-Cmdr David Keith SETH-SMITH 1914-76 scion of that gentry family, and his former w Pamela Hilda 1918-2009 d of Capt Vaughan Adrian Philipps STOKES 1890-1955 of Kent by his 23 May 1916 m (St Peter, Eaton Sq) to as her 1st h Marion Hilda 1895-1984 (Mrs Albert Williamson-Napier) d of Brig-Gen Francis Algernon CURTEIS CB CMG 1856-1928 and as her 1st h Jeannie Hilda Macdonald MYBURGH 1874-1945 (Mrs Alfred Collard), and had a dau. She m 2nd 1983 (div 1999) Rodney Spencer 1938-2000 s of Arthur LEDWARD 1899-1983 by his 1922 m reg Q1 W Derby to Beatrice Maud PRITCHARD 1901-87, and had a son.