Lady Mary Colman

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sven_me...@web.de

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Jan 4, 2021, 1:50:13 AM1/4/21
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She has died https://www.edp24.co.uk/news/obituaries/lady-mary-colman-dies-aged-88-in-norfolk-6878488

So I think there are only 5 cousins of the Queen still living:

-Duke of Kent
-Duke of Gloucester
-Princess Alexandra
-Albemarle Bowes-Lyon
-Sir Simon Bowes-Lyon

Brian Coleman

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Jan 4, 2021, 2:55:39 AM1/4/21
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Prince Michael of Kent is also a first cousin of The Queen 

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Jan 4, 2021, 5:24:30 AM1/4/21
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Lady Mary Colman (nee BOWES LYON) was also a godmother of Diana, Princess of Wales according to this website

British Royal Christenings: House of Windsor | Unofficial Royalty  
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Henry W

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Jan 4, 2021, 1:11:24 PM1/4/21
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From the Daily Telegraph of 4 January 2021:

COLMAN
Lady Mary Cecilia died peacefully at home on Saturday 2 January 2021, aged 88. Most dearly loved wife of Sir Timothy Colman KG, adored mother of Sarah, Sabrina, Emma, James and Matthew, grandmother of ten, great-grandmother of sixteen. Private family funeral and a Service of Thanksgiving for Mary's life to be held at a later date.

Lady Mary Cecilia BOWES-LYON (1932 - 2021) was the dau of the Hon Michael Claude Hamilton BOWES-LYON (1893 - 1953), himself son of the 14th & 1st Earl of STRATHMORE and KINGHORNE (1855 - 1944) and otherwise a scion of the PORTLAND dukes, the DEVONSHIRE dukes, the ABEL SMITH LG family, etc, etc., and Elizabeth Margaret CATOR (1899 - 1959), a scion of the LG family of that name of WOODBASTWICK, the ADEANE LG family of BABRAHAM, the HARDWICKE earls, etc., etc.

She m. 1951 her second cousin Sir Timothy James Alan COLMAN (born 1929), who was made a  KNIGHT OF THE GARTER in 1996, and (?)Head of the LG family of that name of CROWN POINT. He was also scion of the ADEANE LG Family (ante), the HARDWICKE earls (ante), etc. etc.

She was raised to the rank of an Earl's daughter in 1974 after the succession of her older brother as 17th Earl of STRATHMORE and KINGHORNE in 1972. With her husband she had three dau and two sons (see the notice) 

sven_me...@web.de

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Jan 10, 2021, 12:34:11 PM1/10/21
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Oh yes I forgot about him

colinp

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Jan 22, 2021, 4:19:08 PM1/22/21
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Obit in Daily Telegraph print edition 22 Jan 2021 -  Lady Mary Colman, cousin of the Queen and dedicated supporter of Norfolk good  causes – obituary (telegraph.co.uk) 

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 Lady Mary Colman, who has died aged 88, was the wife of Sir Timothy Colman, KG, former Lord Lieutenant of Norfolk, and a first cousin of the Queen. She was the daughter of Michael Bowes-Lyon, a brother of the Queen Mother, and his wife, Elizabeth Cator.

Mary Cecilia Bowes-Lyon was born on January 30 1932, at Gastlings, Biggleswade, Bedfordshire. She was twin to her sister Patricia, and younger sister of Fergus, the future 17th Earl of Strathmore & Kinghorne.

The children spent their holidays before and during the war with their grandfather at Glamis Castle, where it was said their father was at his happiest.

The twins were frequently bridesmaids, notably at the wedding of their cousin, Anne Bowes-Lyon to Viscount Anson in 1938, a union that produced the photographer, Lord Lichfield and his sister, Lady Elizabeth Anson, who died last year.

Mary was educated at Hatherop Castle, in those days more noted for instilling social graces than for academic achievement, and came out with a magnificent ball in London for 500 at Londonderry House in July 1949, generally deemed to have been the major social event of that year.

The King attended a private family dinner before it but was not well enough for the ball itself to which Queen Elizabeth went, accompanied by Princesses Elizabeth and Margaret.

On November 10 1951 Mary married Lieutenant Timothy Colman, RN, of the mustard family, at St Bartholomew-the-Great in Smithfield, London, the service attended by Queen Elizabeth (the Queen Mother) and Princess Margaret.

One of her bridesmaids was her cousin, Elizabeth Anson. The groom was the son of Captain Geoffrey Colman (who played first class cricket), and was a keen yachtsman who held the world speed sailing record for several years.....

In 1970 she was created an Extra Lady-in-Waiting to Princess Alexandra, accompanying her on certain engagements, often in Norfolk, and occasionally representing her at funerals, such as that for Ruth, Lady Fermoy, and memorial services.

When the Prince of Wales married in 1981, she brought dozens of lilies from Norfolk to adorn the Lady Chapel where the register was to be signed.

Her twin sister, Lady Patricia Tetley, who lived reclusively in Norfolk in her later years, died in 1995.

Lady Mary’s eldest daughter, Sarah Troughton, carried on the family tradition when she was appointed Lord Lieutenant of Wiltshire in 2012 (Sir Timothy’s maternal great- grandmother having served as such in Anglesey).

Lady Mary is survived by her husband and three daughters and two sons.

Lady Mary Colman, born January 30 1932, died January 2 2021



Mark Jennings

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Jan 22, 2021, 4:41:33 PM1/22/21
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On Friday, January 22, 2021 at 9:19:08 PM UTC colinp wrote:
Obit in Daily Telegraph print edition 22 Jan 2021 -  Lady Mary Colman, cousin of the Queen and dedicated supporter of Norfolk good  causes – obituary (telegraph.co.uk) 
 
Lady Mary’s eldest daughter, Sarah Troughton, carried on the family tradition when she was appointed Lord Lieutenant of Wiltshire in 2012 (Sir Timothy’s maternal great- grandmother having served as such in Anglesey).

I don't believe any lady ever served as Lord Lieutenant of Anglesey, and certainly none of Sir Timothy's great grandmothers did.  Presumably this is a reference to his great grandfather, Richard Davies, MP (1818-1896), who was Lord Lieutenant from 1884 .

colinp

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Jan 23, 2021, 7:38:58 AM1/23/21
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I should have spotted that.  Who was the first lady Lord-Lieutenant I wonder?

Mark Jennings

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Jan 23, 2021, 10:07:59 AM1/23/21
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Outside of Scottish Lord Provosts, the first appointed female Lord Lieutenant was Lavinia, Duchess of Norfolk, in West Sussex in 1975.

pyvery

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Jan 24, 2021, 8:33:35 AM1/24/21
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I think that the Duke of Edinburgh has two first cousins alive

prince michael of Greece
lady pamela hicks

sven_me...@web.de

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Jan 24, 2021, 10:46:29 AM1/24/21
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and I think all 8 cousins have attendeded the wedding in 1947.

pyvery

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Jan 25, 2021, 6:26:34 AM1/25/21
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I dont know whether Prince michael of greece did.

Is there a list of those who attended?

Henry W

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Jan 25, 2021, 4:25:42 PM1/25/21
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wedding_of_Princess_Elizabeth_and_Philip_Mountbatten#Groom's_family

Wikipedia provides a list, though I am not sure of its veracity.

ThomasFoolery

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Sep 13, 2021, 7:33:00 PM9/13/21
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2 September 2021
St. James's Palace

The Duke of Kent was present at the Service of Celebration for the Life of the Lady Mary Colman which was held in Norwich Cathedral this afternoon.

Kensington Palace

The Duke and Duchess of Gloucester were present at the Service of Celebration for the Life of the Lady Mary Colman which was held in Norwich Cathedral this afternoon.

Balmoral Castle

The Queen was represented by Princess Alexandra, the Hon. Lady Ogilvy at the Service of Celebration for the Life of the Lady Mary Colman (Extra Lady in Waiting to Princess Alexandra) which was held in Norwich Cathedral this afternoon.

William Stotesbury-Leeson

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Sep 14, 2021, 9:08:04 AM9/14/21
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