From the Times of 6 Dec 2021: Fortune, Duchess of Grafton obituaryClose friend and confidante of the Queen who in a break with tradition was appointed mistress of the robes while still a countessAs mistress of the robes, the Duchess of Grafton’s role traditionally involved arranging the Queen’s clothes and jewellery. In reality, Fortune Grafton had little to do with the royal robes; instead, she was responsible for looking after the Queen’s ladies-in-waiting and taking her turn at the Queen’s side during state occasions and on royal tours.
As Countess of Euston she was appointed lady of the bedchamber in March 1953, in time to assist at the Coronation three months later. In 1967 the Queen broke with tradition by promoting her to mistress of the robes, a position that would normally have gone to a higher-ranking duchess; a situation that was regularised three years later when she became a duchess.
Grafton became one of the Queen’s closest and most discreet confidantes, never once speaking to the press...
Ann Fortune Smith was born in 1920, the eldest of four children of Captain Eric Smith, MC, a scion of the Smith banking dynasty who was severely wounded in the Great War, became managing director of the travel agent Thomas Cook and was later chairman of Rolls-Royce. Her mother, Beatrice (née Williams), was descended from Thomas Cook and her younger brothers were Sir John, a banker, Conservative MP and founder of the Landmark Trust; Jeremy, a banker who rowed in the Oxford crew that sank in the 1951 Boat Race; and Mark, an eye surgeon.
She was raised at Ashfold, the family seat in Slaugham, West Sussex, and was presented at Court in May 1938. During the Season she was a guest at a ball at Euston Hall and met Hugh FitzRoy, the Earl of Euston, who was descended from Charles II’s illegitimate offspring. He had been a possible suitor for Princess Elizabeth but during the war served as ADC to Field Marshal Viscount Wavell, the Viceroy of India, possibly a manoeuvre by Earl Mountbatten to clear the way for Prince Philip of Greece...
James, the eldest of their five children and a godson of Queen Elizabeth the Queen Mother, died from cancer in 2009 aged 61 and as a result when the Duke of Grafton died (obituary, April 12, 2011) the title passed to the duchess’s grandson, Henry FitzRoy. She is survived by their remaining four children: Henrietta, a volunteer at Great Ormond Street; Virginia, a homeopath and artist who is a goddaughter of the Queen; Charles, who runs Fine Art Travel; and Rose, a volunteer at Royal Trinity Hospice.
...After the duke’s death the duchess moved into an apartment off the King’s Road in Chelsea, passing comment among friends about lapses in etiquette in films such as The Young Victoria (2009). After watching some episodes of the Netflix series The Crown, she turned to Lady Charteris of Amisfield (obituary, April 20, 2017), another lady-in-waiting, and asked in horror: “Can the general public see this?” Shortly before the first lockdown she was visited by the Queen, who delivered in person the traditional royal card to mark her 100th birthday.
Fortune Duchess of Grafton, GCVO, mistress of the robes, was born on February 24, 1920. She died on December 3, 2021, aged 101https://www.thetimes.co.uk/article/fortune-duchess-of-grafton-obituary-8qvgnzq2wFrom the Telegraph of 6 Dec 2021:The Dowager Duchess of Grafton, steadfast confidante of the Queen who performed the duties of Mistress of the Robes with faultless discretion – obituaryThe office of Mistress of the Robes has its origins in Elizabeth’s reign; few people recently have had such close connections with Court
https://www.telegraph.co.uk/obituaries/2021/12/05/dowager-duchess-grafton-steadfast-confidante-queen-performed/