He was s of Maj-Gen James SCOTT ELLIOT CB CBE DSO 1902-1996 (who he succ. as) head of that Scots gentry family of Kirkconnel Lea and his 1st w Cecil Margaret DU BUISSON scion of that gentry family of Saint’s Hill House. He m 1st 1969 (div 1996) Andrena Christian b 1943 d of Lt-Col Charles Patrick ANDERSON and Christian Maule c1916-2014 d of Sir Alexander JARDINE 10th Bt of Applegarth 1868-1942 by his w a 2xgt gd of 8th Earl of DALHOUSIE c1730-1787, etc, and had two sons (the elder ROBIN JAMES succeeds as family head). He m 2nd 1997 Frances Gail d of Cyril Arthur Frederick FULLER-SHAPCOT.