HAYTER, John William 1938-2021

[Richard R]

From the Telegraph of 7 Sept 2021: HAYTER - John William Died peacefully at home in Hermanus on 29th August 2021, aged 83. Much loved husband of Emma, Father of Sarah & Charles, Grandfather of Olivia, Georgie, Archie & Grace. Service to be arranged at a future date.

He was s of Charles William John Hugh HAYTER 1907-85 of Pudlicote House, Chilson, and Edith Munro FRASER 1914-98. He m 1st 1961 (div 1968) Belinda Mary b 1941 (her 2nd h is a McCORQUODALE) d of Col John Herbert WALFORD 1900-76 sometime head of that gentry family of Wolverton and Diana Myrtle 1918-2001 d of Sir Strati RALLI 2nd Bt 1876-1964, and had a dau Sarah Miranda b 1964 who is married with a son and a dau. He m 2nd 19__ Emma _ and had a son Charles Edward b 1984 reg Q3 London

[Richard R]

From the Times of 8 March 2022: HAYTER John William Dl. A service of thanksgiving will be held at St Botolph-without-Bishopsgate EC2M 3TL on 25th May 2022 at 3pm and afterwards at The City of London Club, 19 Old Broad Street...

[G. Willis]

Charles Edward Hayter mother "Gray"; John W. Hayter m. 1983, Emma J. A. Guest; Emma J. A. Gray m. 1st, 1970 (per Debrett's 2019, diss. 1978), Julian J. Guest.

Per BP 2003, Julian John Guest, s. of Ivor Grosvenor Guest, 2nd Viscount Wimborne (and Lady Mabel Edith, dau. of Giles Stephen Holland Fox-Strangways, 6th Earl of Ilchester), m. 1970, Emma Jane Arlette, dau. of Cmdr Archibald Gray (d. 1991), R.N., D.S.O., of Tilbridge, Great Staughton, Hunts., and Grey Cunliffe, dau. of Evelyn Hugh James Duberly (1887-1951), of  [BLG 1972, Duberly of Gaynes Hall and Staughton Manor; also maternal grandson of the politician Arthur Marcus Cecil Sandys, 3rd Baron Sandys, and descended from 1st Earl Grey; Cmdr Gray's son Sir Archibald Hugh Duberly assumed that name, so presumably the heir to that family(?)] and Saffron Enid, dau. of Harry Pickersgill-Cunliffe [per BFI, "see Duberly", presumably implying appearance in previous editions/ comparable status].

[G. Willis]

Per notes from last year, J. W. Hayter's sister, Jane Mary (1940-), m. 1961, Sir Samuel Charles Whitbread, of Biggleswade, Bedfords., chairman, Whitbread & Co. 1984-92 (director 1972-2001), Lord Lieutenant of Bedfordshire 1991, K.C.V.O., J.P., D.L., F.L.S., F.R.S.A., K.St.J., s. of Maj. Simon Whitbread, of the King's Royal Rifle Corps (60th Rifles), J.P., D.L., and Helen Beatrice Margaret, dau. of Hon. Robert Henry Hepburn-Stuart-Forbes-Trefusis (s. of Charles Henry Rolle Hepburn-Stuart-Forbes-Trefusis, 20th Baron Clinton) and Lady Dorothy Marguerite Elizabeth, dau. of Col Edward William Herbert, of Orleton, Salop., late King's Royal Rifle Corps (s. of 2nd Earl of Powis), and sister of 5th and 6th Earls of Powis.

Her daughter (also 3 s.), Victoria Clare Helen (1969-), m. 1993, Sebastian Finch Morley, s. of Jonathan Derek Morley and Hon. Kirsty Jane, dau. of Sir John William Maxwell Aitken, 2nd Bt; issue 2 daus.