She was d of Maj Amyas Henry Stafford NORTHCOTE MC 1916-44 (gt gs of 1st Earl of IDDESLEIGH 1818-87) and Mollie Gordon Buchanan SCOTT. She m 1968 Antony Cokayne b 1940 s of Maj Peter Duke DOULTON 1906-84 and Elizabeth 1913-90 d of Francis Stewart COKAYNE 1871-1945 (2xgt gs of 5th Viscount CULLEN 1710-1802) and Dorothy Emily c1892-1963 d of Sir Leslie PROBYN KCMG 1862-1938 and Emily DAVIES OBE c1846-1926, and had a son and a dau as above.