Cheating Husbands: Top 10 Ways on How to Catch a Cheating Husband

[david lim]

(Dedicated to our lovely neighbor Nik Hans a.k.a cat killer staying on
road 36)

Cheating husbands leave many signs and with a bit of detective work, a
wife can catch her husband with solid proof. Many wives make the
mistake of hiring an expensive detective or purchasing pricey spy
equipment. However, if you are aware of some of the signs of a
cheating husband and know your husband’s behavior and habits well, you
simply need to follow your gut instinct and employ some of the top 10
ways of how to catch a cheating husband. Most of all, be patient. Give
yourself 3-4 weeks of spying time.

Pay close attention to small details and use all your senses so you
don’t miss any cheatings signs from your husband. Make sure you keep a
log book of descriptions, dates and times of all the clues you
discover. If you find a clue, make a copy of it if possible. NEVER
accuse him of an affair unless you have concrete proof he was cheating
because you may have to use this proof in a court of law should you
pursue divorce. If you don’t have solid proof, many cheating men lie
and make up stories or will call you crazy. Plan your confrontation
out in your mind so you will be prepared and armed with facts and
evidence. If you have children, make sure they are in a safe,
protected place. In addition, don’t become a cheating wife to get
revenge. It only causes more problems and will be used against you.

Ways to Catch a Cheating Husband [Cheating Husband]


1. Set a trap. Cheating husbands usually cheat when their wife is out
of town. Tell your husband that you are leaving for a couple of days
and then wait, listen and watch. Place a recording surveillance device
in your bedroom or near the phone and then listen. Park in a friend’s
car with a hat and sunglasses on and follow his car or wait for
someone to come to the house. Keep a camera, binoculars and a cell
phone with you. Cheating husbands usually take their affair out for
dinner and a rendezvous while you are gone. Give your cheating husband
lots of space to make a mistake. Your husband will leave cheating
signs unknowingly. Make sure you are “busy” or out of the house a lot
while you are investigating. Take a long nap under your bed at lunch
or in the evening or place a long recording digital tape recorder
which is voice activated under the bed. This wouldn’t work if you have
children or a dog.

2. Watch his cell phone. If he protects his cell phone with a
password, unexpectedly ask to borrow his cell phone to make an
important call. Then make a fake call, pressing as many buttons of his
call log as possible to note any strange calls. Go to bathroom with
phone if at all possible. Watch whether his cell phone is always
turned off when with you or whether he takes unusually long to phone
you back. Note the times, dates and length of any suspicious calls.
Press the re-dial on the phone or *69. This is an effective way to
find out who they’ve been calling.

3. Place a long-recording digital tape recorder under your cheating
husband’s car seat every morning and then listen to it when you are
alone. Please check the laws in your city or state to make sure it is
legal to record someone in your car if they are borrowing it. The same
goes for a GPS tracking device which tracks everywhere your husband’s
car goes. GPS tracking devices are now made the size of a pack of
chewing gum so they are easy to hide.

4. Monitor your husband’s computer usage. Does he use the computer
late at night or for an unusual amount of time? Cheating husbands
frequently utilize free email services such as hotmail, msn, yahoo,
gmail, hushmail, etc… Check his internet web browser history for
warning signs. If you suspect your husband is cheating, you can
install a keystroke logger which will log every keystroke your husband
types, including his passwords. There are many good ones currently for
sale.

5. If your cheating husband is frequenting any dating sites, create a
fake profile on-line of someone you think your husband would be
attracted to and then start flirting. Many wives have successfully
used this technique.

6. Be careful of your cheating husband’s close friends who may cover
for him because of loyalty feelings. Even if they don’t approve of
your husband’s cheating ways, they may still cover for his cheating by
providing an alibi for him.

7. Set booby traps in your house. If you think your cheating husband
may be bringing someone into your home while you are traveling or out,
set some traps. Put on a clean set of sheets and then place a crumb on
the bedspread. Make sure that a dog or cat don’t move it. Then check
to see if the crumb is still in the same place after your return.

8. Get your girlfriend’s to help. Sign up a willing acquaintance or
girlfriend to hit on your husband at a pre-determined location to see
if he will bite. It is helpful if she carries a tape recorder in her
purse so you may hear him.

9. Monitor your husband’s driving habits for a month. Watch for
increase in gas receipts and monitor the car's odometer to see if
there are extra unexplained miles on the car. Monitor the time he
leaves for work and the time he comes home. You should be able to
establish a patterns by keeping a calendar and noting the times. If
your husband claims to be working late, check paycheck stubs to verify
his overtime. If your husband explains a late return home as a result
of having to drive out of town on business, yet the mileage on the car
indicates less than ten miles driven, you’ll have caught your cheating
husband in a lie which may be due to his adultery.

10. Paper signs of a cheating husband can include unexplained
receipts, more frequent ATM withdrawals, and unexplained credit card
charges. Note any strange dates and times. Is there a restaurant
charge when he should have been at work? Check his business deductions
if possible.

If you have tried some of the above tips on how to catch a cheating
husband and have been unsuccessful, try playing your poker face.
Pretend like you know something and give him 24 hours to come clean or
else... However, only resort to this after you have tried all other
means because if you accuse him, your husband will know you are on to
him, deny any wrong doing and cover his cheating tracks better next
time.

Written by Stephany Alexander