RE: .:Parental Help:. I am the Boyfriend

[Devastation614]

I had went threw the same thing with my gf and her four year old son some years back you basically have to deprogram her and the kids and that's not a over night thing but you also have to question yourself was she upkept when you meet her ?

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From: Rusty Rhino <rust...@gmail.com>
Sent: November 07, 2009 7:40 PM
To: Parental Help <parent...@googlegroups.com>
Subject: .:Parental Help:. I am the Boyfriend

Hello, I hope that i might get some incite from this group. I am
living with my Girlfriend we have been together for nearly 2 years. I
am frustrated that the kids don't pickup after themselves.The kids are
10 b&g (twins) 13 b Where they are done with something there it will
remain until mom or me will pick it up. I have made it understood to
my GF that this behavior is making me get upset. I have repeatedly
asked her to help to stop this. i get answers like i have cleaned for
them and for other kids for 20 years it is natural for me. Or i am not
a neat freak and i don't care about a little clutter around the house.
I am to the point where i think that i am not important to her and
that my ideas and my difficulties don't matter to her at all. she
loves me this she says to me and i know she does. but this non caring
about my feelings and the way her kids do this to her is getting under
my skin. Am i asking to much to pick-up after myself and to expect
others in the house to do the same?
GRRRRRRRR
Rusty

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