Sree Sree Guru Gaurangau Jayatah!
You should understand the difference between this material world and the Transcendental Spiritual Realm. Sri Krishna is the only Master and Enjoyer in the Transcendental Spiritual Realm, Vrindavana dham, and there all others are His servitors in different love-relations. The target of the servitors there is only the satisfaction of Sri Krishna and nothing else. Whereas in this world, the conditioned souls, all think themselves as masters and enjoyers and they want to enjoy and lord it over others. This whole material world is a place of the forest fire, where all are egocentric and they are fighting with each other for material interests. When centers of interests are many, clashing is inevitable. We remain in this world, with the misconception of the self and for the fulfillment of material non-eternal desires, thinking we can be happy. It can never be possible.
--- Jagad-guru His Divine Grace Srila Bhakti Ballabh Tirtha Goswami Maharaj