So, tolerance is still the less common condition by far.
Also, lactose tolerance is not the only issue. Milk is specifically
formulated to promote growth of infants, hence it contains many growth-
promoting compounds (including hormones) and has an IGF impact that
promotes growth. This is in part why the Masai are so tall. We have
evidence that taller and heavier people have greater risks of cancer
and live shorter lives. Promoting growth is accelerating aging
(increasing cellular reproduction). So although milk might have
indeed saved some Northern Europeans from starvation, tolerance of
lactose doesn't make adults fully adapted to milk consumption.