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Rebeccawas right on both occasions. For me, change was abrupt at first and then slow and tenuous. Encompassing both the personal and professional arenas of my life, it was an opportunity to reinvent myself entirely by leaving The Great Discontent, the magazine I co-founded with my ex-husband, and eventually merging my social-worker roots with the years I spent interviewing hundreds of creatives by training to become a creative coach.

There are two items of note in the definitions above. First, reinvention entails producing something new based on what already exists. It is not a total repudiation of what came before. In a recent phone conversation with my mentor I was reminded that even as I embark on new professional endeavors that will redefine my creative role, I am still me. You are still you wherever you go. Reinvention honors your past and all of the lessons, experiences, training, and expertise you bring with you while simultaneously looking forward to future possibilities.


Many of us have worked for companies that have mission statements, but how many of us have personal mission statements or even know how to write one? This is crucial to uncovering why you are making life-changing decisions. You can have one mission statement for your entire life, or you can form different statements for various areas of your life if you want to separate them out.


Remember your why and let your North Stars guide you. At some point, or several points, you will feel discouraged, question your new path, and wonder if you made the right choice. When this happens, revisit your North Stars and imagine how your life will feel once you have more of what you want. Reread your mission statement and remember why you are on a new path. Go back to both as often as you need.


Build change into your daily routine. What changes can you make in your day-to-day to have a calendar that reflects your priorities? What does your roadmap to change look like on a calendar? Think about it in terms of the day-to-day changes, monthly goals, and quarterly goals that will help you get closer to the life you want.


I did not seek out the journey of self-reinvention, but it found me anyway. Even as I left my marriage and the magazine I co-founded and set my sights on building my coaching business, my work has continued to transform, sometimes unexpectedly. The process has felt both sudden and slow, abrupt and drawn-out, but I have learned to embrace the dualities of reinvention. And, ultimately, I have realized that the person I am becoming is not someone foreign or completely new, but someone I recognize because she is who I wanted to become all along.


Tina Essmaker is a NYC-based coach, writer, and speaker who equips the creative community to move beyond inspiration into action. She is cofounder and former Editor in Chief of The Great Discontent magazine, for which she interviewed more than 250 creators. Her decade-long background in social work combined with her expertise in themes that dot the creative landscape are the foundation of her coaching practice working with individuals and teams across creative industries.


Do you daydream about doing something completely different? Maybe you've been thinking about pursuing a different career, something unrelated to what you do now. Maybe you don't have any experience in it but believe it would help you find true happiness and success.


Reinvention can sound exciting. Yet the idea (and process) of reinventing yourself is daunting for many people. It can take a lot of work to change who you are as a person, how you think of yourself, and how others perceive you. But reinventing yourself can be truly empowering.


Reinventing yourself means identifying patterns, values, or activities that no longer serve you and changing them for better options. It can involve external characteristics, like job, hobbies, appearance, relationships, and location. True reinvention also happens inside, in how you think and behave. It will be different for everybody, which is what makes it so powerful.


This can be interpreted in a number of different ways. For some people, self-reinvention means a major career change. While for others, it could mean breaking bad habits or adopting a new life skill.


All of these processes are indicators of our natural need for change and evolution. It is the force that prompts us to let go of the past, step outside our comfort zone, and move forward into the future.


In the midst of all this contemplation, you might get carried away with what is realistically achievable. Make sure that the things you want to change are rooted in reality and reflect healthy, practicable goals.


Being honest with yourself can force you to deal with some hard truths that are uncomfortable to acknowledge. This makes it all the more important. Lying to yourself will only hold you back from personal development.


The type of people that you surround yourself with has the power to either lift you up or bring you down. Make sure that the people around you are kind, honest, and want what is best for you in life. They will encourage you to do the right thing and keep you grounded.


Last but by no means least, remember to celebrate your success. When it comes to significant shifts in your life, every milestone is worth recognition. Celebrating the wins, big or small, will boost your confidence and self-worth.


Inner Work is the practice of looking inward to our authentic selves and experiences. It is about thinking about how we think and how we interpret and interact with the world. Our inner world plays a major role in how we conceptualize and relate to the world.


Through this self-exploration and self-understanding, we can better understand the things that ignite our passions. From here, we can identify the biggest and most fulfilling opportunities for self-development.


What do you seek when you pursue reinvention? Most of us seek happiness. And if we don't understand that as a key motivator, and if we don't understand how happiness works, we may be disappointed in our reinvention. In fact, we may discover that the key part of ourselves or our lives that we sought to reinvent, our unhappiness, wasn't reinvented at all.


For our journey of self-reinvention, we need to define what the next level is and what it looks like. In her book, Arrington shares her rules and advice on how to expand your horizons and identify your superpowers. Her aim is to help women write the new rules of power with life-changing confidence.


Be Who You Want explains how personalities are more plastic and flexible than static. Because of this malleability, Jarrett gives us the tools to shape our personality in ways that will make our lives better.


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The method of choice was writing. I took every part of the process and wrote about it. It helped me as much as it helped the few people who emailed me along the journey and said they found those articles helpful.


These words were sort of like journal entries, but not really. These journal entries became a form of short essays. These short essays became blog posts. These blog posts eventually got shared on the internet through an opportunity that was invisible to me at the time.


Changing my work was a big part of the reinvention process. What might surprise you is that I changed work many times before getting roughly in the pocket of work I enjoy. There were many failed positions, managers, skills and companies involved. But ultimately, a change in work gave new meaning to the transformation process.


They told me the internet was saturated and there was no room for another writer, especially without a blog that had been doing SEO for years. They told me it was too late for social media. Facebook had been around for longer than five years and the opportunity had passed, I was told.


You deserve to be happy, healthy, enjoy life, and look back one day and be proud. Use these steps to reinvent your life and then help someone else do the same. You can be so much more than you ever thought you could be.


But what if the concept was not just an abstract, recurring pattern in our narratives but a methodological approach to living a fulfilling life? Reinventing yourself every seven years yields benefits to accelerate your career.


Identify the aspects of your life that need improvement. Is it an unfulfilling job? A toxic relationship? A sedentary lifestyle? By pinpointing the problem areas, you can tailor your reinvention to address them directly.


Has the last seven-year stretch been rewarding or riddled with regrets? Take note of your accomplishments and the areas you wish to have done better. This exercise is about learning from your past, not dwelling on it.


Create an action plan to drive success. This could be based on milestones in your career, relationships or personal development. List what you would like to achieve and set realistic time frames. Planning gives you a sense of direction and control, which is crucial when on the cusp of major change.


The world changes drastically every seven years, and adapting is vital. Be it technological shifts, societal movements or even personal preferences, being adaptable ensures that you do not become irrelevant in a rapidly transforming landscape.


By regularly assessing your life and committing to a cycle of renewal, you create a self-sustaining engine of personal and professional improvement. It is an approach that demands courage, hard work and a willingness to confront discomfort. But as those who have embraced reinvention and witnessed the powerful changes it can bring will tell you, the rewards are immeasurable.

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