El amor es movimiento y hay que fluir con él

[Oshita]

Every lover feels that something is missing, because love is
unfinished. It is a process, not a thing.

Every lover is bound to feel that something is missing - but don't
interpret it wrongly.
It simply shows that love in itself is a dynamic thing. It is just
like a river, always moving, always moving. In the very movement is
the life of the river.

Once it stops it becomes a stagnant thing; then it is no longer a
river.
The very word river shows a process, the very sound of it gives you
the feeling of movement.

Love is a river, it is not a thing, a commodity. So don't think that
something is missing; it is part of love's process. And it is good
that it is not completed.

When something is missing you have to do something. That is a call
from higher and higher peaks. Not that when you reach them you will
feel fulfilled... love never feels fulfilled. It knows no fulfillment,
but it is beautiful because then it is alive for ever and ever.

You will always feel that something is not in tune. That too is
natural, because when two persons are meeting, two different worlds
are meeting. To expect that they will fit perfectly is to expect too
much, is to expect the impossible, and that will create frustration.
Something will always be out of tune. If you fit completely and there
is nothing out of tune, the relationship will become stagnant.

At the most, there are a few moments when everything is in tune, rare
moments. Even when they come you may not be able to catch them they
are so swift, so rare. They have not come and they are already gone -
just a glimpse. And that glimpse will make you more frustrated,
because then you will see more and more that things are out of tune.

This is how it has to be. Make all efforts to make that in-tuneness,
but always be ready if it doesn't happen perfectly. And don't be
worried about it, otherwise you will fall more and more out of tune.

Uno lee estos mensajes de Osho y concuerda con él.
Luego el stress, el cansancio, las expectativas, la distancia que se
inetropone,
hace olvidar la naturaleza de lo que llamamos amor, que es libre y
fluye,
si lo dejamos fluir.

Abrazos


"Love comes only when you are not worried about it. It happens only
when you are not tense about it, when you are not even expecting it -
just out of the blue. It is a grace, a gift of God.

Love is not a thing you can do. But by doing other things, love will
happen. There are small things you can do - sitting together, looking
at the moon, listening to music - nothing directly to do with love.

Love is very delicate, fragile. If you look at it, gaze at it
directly, it will disappear. It comes only when you are unaware, doing
something else. You cannot go directly, arrow-like. Love is not a
target. It is a very subtle phenomenon... it is very shy. If you go
direct, it will hide. If you do something direct, you will miss.

Sometimes those rare blissful moments come... then something of the
unknown descends. You are no longer on the earth, you are in paradise.
Reading a book with your lover, both deeply absorbed in it, suddenly
you find that a different quality of being has arisen around you both;
something surrounds you both like an aura, and everything is peaceful.
But you were not doing anything directly. You were just reading a
book, or just going for a long walk, hand in hand against the strong
wind - suddenly it is there. It always takes you unawares. So learn to
do things together.

I have watched so many people, thousands of couples. People have
completely forgotten the language of doing things together, or not
doing anything, just being together, just being. People have forgotten
that. If they have nothing to do they make love. Then nothing happens,
and by and by they are frustrated by love itself, and then the whole
of life loses meaning, because if love loses meaning, life loses
meaning.

......

Do you follow me? Don't be worried - it will take care of itself.
And don't become a seeker after love, otherwise you will miss it
completely..