Agree on images/videos, and I am open to suggestions on colors (Ideally, once we decide on a logo and its colors, I just copy the logo's colors).
If they have specific stylesheets in mind (or websites that I could easily copy the stylesheets from), I'd be game for that, since I can get that running in maybe an hour, but I also want to balance this with my own preference of websites that run fast on old machines (e.g., don't have a lot of animated junk running in the background, even if it looks cooler).
If any of your family members are more tech savvy, I would definitely like their support