I'd be interested in hearing you suggestions, be in public or personal,
about these matters and what I personally can do or we as a larger group
can do to make things better.
Here are the relevant links:
http://www.ultrasaurus.com/sarahblog/2009/04/gender-and-sex-at-gogaruco/
http://dyepot-teapot.com/2009/04/25/dear-fellow-rubyists/
http://dyepot-teapot.com/2009/04/26/so-now-what/
Thank you.
-igal
The fact that so many people deny that it is even a problem is a
hurdle in itself.
I know a lot of geeky women, and I have heard many sad stories of how
they have been treated in technology, and science.
One friend was in a computer science program, and was repeatedly told
that she would quit, and not recognized for any of the good work that
she did until she finally quit.
Another friend had her software development tools deleted by her
boyfriend because "you'll never use these".
There is easily enough research, and content on this subject to fill a
book, and there is much disagreement about what the right solution is.
I don't know what the solution is. I try to learn how I might be
part of the problem, and adjust my behavior based on that. At some
point I realized that a friend had expressed interest in learning
technology, and asked me, but I hadn't done much to help them. I
asked them if they were still interested, and ended up mentoring them
for a few months. I've mentored a few other women, and it seems to be
rewarding in both directions. I feel like I am making progress, but I
can only do so much. Allison Randal (OSCON chair) told me that she
got where she is today largely as a result of others mentoring her. I
strongly feel that this is at least part of the solution.
Daniel Johnson wrote:
> Allison Randal (OSCON chair) told me that she
> got where she is today largely as a result of others mentoring her.
It's worth mentioning that Code-n-Splode is tonight (4/28) at 7pm,
CubeSpace. It's a user group dedicated to bringing together women in
technology.
It's also worth mentioning that many of those heavily involved in Open
Source Bridge have helped create other events, projects and efforts that
have engaged more women and a broader range of the community through
mentoring and leadership opportunities: Calagator, FOSCONs, BarCamps,
Ignites, WhereCamp, etc. I believe these efforts have made a difference.
> One friend was in a computer science program, and was repeatedly told
> that she would quit, and not recognized for any of the good work that
> she did until she finally quit.
Was this sexism or simple hostility? I was told this when taking CS
classes, along with everyone else because there was an aggressive policy
in most schools to eliminate students. For example, my CS161 class
started with maybe 300 students, but there were only about 20 left to
take the final, and this was seen as desirable by the administration.
> Another friend had her software development tools deleted by her
> boyfriend because "you'll never use these".
The boyfriend's behavior was bad. However, I respectfully suggest that
choosing to date such a jerk was also bad.
Scott Becker wrote:
> Women have had great success in other male-dominated professions
> that exude much more machismo.
The words "macho" and "male-dominated" come up a lot in these
discussions. However, programming seems far less "macho" or deliberately
sexist than other professions, and thus should be better off, yet it's
worse. While I accept that these are problems, I can't help but think
that there's got to be something else that's either different or more
specific that's at the core cause of this massive imbalance.
> I will keep my eyes open for any more insight into how to do that.
Thanks!
-igal
I think he has been told that even if he walked on water he couldn't
get her back.
-igal