You will need to develop some intuition and experience around mesh resolution requirements.
I provided the case to give you an idea of what a reasonable mesh 'looks like'.
Your original mesh had too much resolution in some respects (around the fuselage and down the straight barrel section of the fuse) -- and too little resolution in other respects (along the nose/tail of the fuselage).
The meshing operations in OpenVSP are not perfectly robust. Sometimes they will crash or give results that result in poor VSPAERO solutions. Usually small adjustments to the geometry or resolution can avoid those cases.
Rob